I'm a firm believer of ignoring the image norms of contemporary times. Instead, I think we should all learn to be comfortable and happy with ourselves, regardless of shape and size.
But that's usually easier said than done.
It is incredibly gratifying and a wonderful boost to my self-esteem when I get a compliment on my looks from a completely unexpected source. Kind or flattering words remind me that beautiful isn't one single concept; instead it means something different to everyone.
Writing a sticky to remind our selves that we are beautiful doesn't always do enough. Hearing "you're beautiful" or "you're so pretty" from a family member doesn't always ring true, because, after all, their opinions are biased. It's a pity our computers can't pick up on our emotions and reassure us on a low day (blast, no magic mirrors that can talk back to us either).
Instead, I find it helps me a little to pass a compliment to someone else on my low days. To see someone else smile because I took a moment to notice them and say something goes a long way in making me feel more content.
What do you do on your low days? What makes you feel more beautiful and confident?
But that's usually easier said than done.
It is incredibly gratifying and a wonderful boost to my self-esteem when I get a compliment on my looks from a completely unexpected source. Kind or flattering words remind me that beautiful isn't one single concept; instead it means something different to everyone.
Writing a sticky to remind our selves that we are beautiful doesn't always do enough. Hearing "you're beautiful" or "you're so pretty" from a family member doesn't always ring true, because, after all, their opinions are biased. It's a pity our computers can't pick up on our emotions and reassure us on a low day (blast, no magic mirrors that can talk back to us either).
Instead, I find it helps me a little to pass a compliment to someone else on my low days. To see someone else smile because I took a moment to notice them and say something goes a long way in making me feel more content.
What do you do on your low days? What makes you feel more beautiful and confident?
On my low days I try to use the philosopher dress the way you want to feel. I just straighten my bangs and boom I instantly feel a little better. Small trick I use when I'm tired of being in a low mood.
ReplyDeleteBut I very much agree about complimenting someone else when you ate having a bad day. Lighting up someone else's day helps shed some light on our day too.
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I do love that way of thinking & doing as well. Usually it's a struggle to get to "fixing myself up" though. But I've noticed making myself put on my favorite outfit & throwing on a pair of earrings does lift my mood as well.
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